Thai love links
Thai love links is probably the best dating site around. It is certainly the largest Thai Dating site with over one Million Members. The fact that Thai Love Links has in excess of One Million Members gives an indication of Western Men’s Fascination with Thai Women. I imagine that many of my readers are already Members. I put some further information regarding the Membership Charges for Thai love links on the post you can link to below. Also my thoughts on why a Site like Thai love links is in every way a better use of your Money than using a Thai Dating Agency It is my honest belief that these Agencies are a Complete and Utter RIP OFF !!
No apologies for my position that the vast majority of Issan Women are only interested in finding a Falang for financial reasons. Being aware of this situation has never stopped Western Men with a penchant for Thai Women from coming here, nor should it!! Chatting to attractive Thai Women Online is a great way to find out many useful things about their Background. How many Brothers and Sisters does She have ? do they work ? you can find the answer to these and many other crucial pieces of Intelligence all of which will help you to build a picture of the Ladies likely motivations!!
If your Online Relationship has progressed to the point where Marriage has been mentioned you should casually inquire about Sinsot. This is a very telling indication of the type of Woman and Family you are dealing with!! To explain, Sinsot is a Dowry paid by a prospective Husband to the Brides Family. My understanding about Sinsot is that it is only sought and given on any Woman’s FIRST Marriage. If the Lady has been Married previously (Most Have) and She and Her Family are adamant that Sinsot must be Paid I would smell a big fat Rat !!
If you are subtle (not confrontational) you should be able to get a very accurate picture of Your Ladies motivations!! You should never loose sight of the reason why this Woman is spending Her time and Money in an Internet Cafe!! This Thai Lady is undoubtedly employing Her Native Cunning and Sex Appeal to Land a Falang, it would be extremely stupid of you not to use your Intelligence to try to establish the type of Family that you could be Marrying into!!
The main problems in these Cross Cultural Relationships is that every Thai is convinced that ALL Falang are rich. This combined with the Hundreds of stories concerning Greedy Issan Woman who have got themselves a House, Car and a stack of Cash by Marrying a Feeble Minded Falang, all lead to Woman who essentially have very little desperately wishing to get on the Gravy Train!! One should never loose sight of the fact that should this Lady have a string of useless Brothers (Most Do) it is the Sisters sacred Obligation to take care of them. The demands made by Family Members I would suggest are the single major reason why Thai/Western Relationships End Badly!!
As regards not sending Money you should be aware that there are Clever Thai Women who are receiving large amounts of Cash from Gullible Men. One of my Girlfriend’s favourite customer who has made a fortune from screwing Falang, regularly sits at the computer all Night “Grooming” her Stable of Feeble Minded Falang.
Lemon the Lady mentioned above bought herself a Brand new White Nissan Almera this Year on her earnings.This is one Classy looking Woman Her Good Looks, Bubbly Personality and a fairly good command of English all deployed to one purpose,Fleecing Falang!! Recently Lemon has discovered that Elderly Japanese Men are a more lucrative Prey than Falang. Lemon relates all her adventure to my Girlfriend as many are quite amusing I will relate them to you dear reader at some future date.
Lemon who has earned a fortune out of Westerners now having moved on to richer pastures told my Girlfriend that I was probably “No Good” being Christian. This new found Religious side of Lemon was never evident during all the years she has been raking in a fortune from Screwing Nominal Christians!! Having always had a sneaking regard for Lemon I admit to being a trifle peeved to be talked of in the above fashion. What I take from Lemons comment is that it is just one more example of the Complete and Utter incompatibility of Thai and Western Culture!!
If you are a newcomer to Thailand you really have to take things nice and steady and employ lots of caution.You will probably never have encountered so many Friendly Smiling People, the Smiling should not be taken as a sign of Sincerity far less honesty.Having a Beautiful Smile is in fact an important part of Thai Culture.
You are coming to a Country with a Culture like no other, the actual word Thai means to relax,Thai’s by their very Nature and History are Lazy!! Silly Western Men besotted by Beautiful Thai Ladies are just another one of Natures Bounties to Thai’s.Like the Monsoon which never fails to arrive turning the parched land to Verdant Green and assuring the rice crop the Falang arrives he and his money ripe to be harvested!!
I know I am waxing a bit lyrical here but I am sure you have got the picture!! One really can have lots of fun here without becoming seriously involved.I am aware that I drone on about the Dangers the reason being because there really are an extraordinary number of Ladies who want to part you from your cash.Provided however that you keep your wits about you there is no reason why you cannot have a really Wonderful time here!!
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