Living in Thailand
The reason for my starting writing this Blog is to give a “Heads Up” to Western Men who are interested in living in Thailand and possibly having a relationship with a beautiful Thai Lady! Rather than Bombard you with lots of information what I plan on doing is having an on-going narrative that will quickly come to include all the really important things you need to know. You will be able to click on the items which sound like they will apply to you, and go to a chapter dealing exclusively with that.
Unfortunately many Western Guys hear the warnings about predatory Thai Ladies too late or possibly ignore what they are hearing!! It is really easy to say that the bad things which inevitably happen to these Men are of their own making. I genuinely hope however that anyone who reads my stuff and knows someone who wants to live in Thailand will consider sending their Friend a Link to the Blog!! Prevention is better than Cure!!!
Undoubtedly many Men particularly Older Men become completely and Utterly Pussy-Whipped in Thailand!! These Guys are such an easy Mark for a Sexy Thai Bar-Girl that it is literally like taking Candy from a Baby!! And believe me Thai Ladies will TAKE they cannot help it,it is in their DNA!! I have attempted to illustrate what actually happens to one of these unfortunate Guys in this Link Sexy Thai Bar-Girls I think any Guy considering Thailand should read it and attempt to really understand what I am saying in it!!
Thailand can be a great place to live and Thai Women are amongst the most Beautiful in the World. Thailand is also incredibly inexpensive when compared with Europe or America.I lived for almost three Years in a great Apartment which cost me less Than £100 per Month, in the UK Winter my heating bill alone was more than this!! In order however to survive and prosper here One must have some understanding of the Thai Mindset as regards Westerners!!
One should be aware that the whole Tone and Tenor of how Foreigners are perceived is set at the Highest levels of Thai Government. In all Thai Public Buildings Museums etc. where an entry fee is charged there are two prices the price for Thais and a substantially higher admission charge for Foreigners. The Subliminal message which is being beamed out loud and clear is “We do not want you in our Country but if you insist on being here you can pay for the privilege!!
The above combined with the underlying dislike of Westerners which is handed down to the next Generation of Thais from their Parents mean that the poor Old Falang never had a chance!! Initially it comes as something of a shock for all WASPS (White Anglo-Saxon Protestants) to find themselves on the other side of Racial Intolerance for a Change!!!! All Thais are totally conflicted as regards Westerners, they do not like us but they desperately want to get their hands on our Cash!!!
I have added a new Category entitled Marriage in Thailand. Given that most Men are coming to Thailand in search of a Thai Lady/Ladies and the question of Marriage may well arise it is important to understand as much about all the implications as possible. Finding a Thai Woman is the easy bit an evening spent Online at Thai Love Links or any of the Thai Dating Sites will produce literally Dozens of prospective partners. Unfortunately the vast majority of these Ladies are interested in the content of your Wallet not the content of your Character!!
I will be recounting some dreadful stories, the idea is not to put you off Living in Thailand, but rather to make you vigilant especially during your first few Months here, it is in the early days of your time in Thailand that a greedy Thai Bar-Girl or the likes can take advantage, and believe me if YOU are foolish enough to give them the opportunity taking advantage is exactly what they will do, with a casual ruthlessness that terrifies!! I cannot stress strongly enough how easy it can be to get into Trouble in Thailand and things have a way of quickly escalating leaving you in a place where you DO NOT want to be. By taking a little time to read at least some of the Articles listed under each of the Page Headings and in the various Blog Categories you will be in a much better position to begin evaluating things for yourself!
I am aware that I write rather negatively about Thai Women and their Families. I am actually trying to be objective in what I write about Thailand. In no way am I trying to discourage anyone from coming here, rather I am attempting to prepare them for what they will find when they arrive here!!. The opinions and observations I make are a reflection of my honestly held views regarding the Country and it’s People. I firmly believe however that in reading my Blog you will get a very accurate picture of what you can expect in Thailand. If I have exaggerated and all the Thai’s you meet are genuine and totally Honest, well you have gotten a Bonus!!!
In a Post which I wrote recently entitled First Time in Thailand I suggest that it could be a good idea to make your first trip to Thailand a Holiday with a Thai Lady. Obviously living here is totally different from taking a Vacation here. I do think however that coming here with a return ticket in your pocket can be a good opportunity to find out a little more about the Lady you are interested in.
When you return to your home Country you will be able to decide at your leisure if Thailand is somewhere you would like to live. And if the particular Lady of your choosing is solely interested in your Cash!! The Beauty of this Plan is that you will be able to spend time finding out what kind of Woman you have chosen without all the distractions of having to try and establish yourself here at the same time!! Instead of having to spend time looking for an apartment and all the other things involved in moving to a new Country you can enjoy the Holiday and begin your understanding of Thais.
In the same way that on the First Day of your First ever Ski Holiday it would be incredibly foolhardy of you to attempt to Ski the most difficult Black Run on the Mountain. Your first few Days in Thailand will expose you to dangers that while they may seem totally unrelated to a Ski accident can be both painful and costly.These misadventures will inevitably happen to the Overconfident Know it all Man Thai Ladies can spot a Newbie, in fact many make a living from them. If you have taken a little time to understand the Country and the People you will be living amongst you already have a head start in the survivability stakes!!
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