About Thai Ladies
Given that the majority of Men who read my Blog are interested in Thailand because of it’s Beautiful and Deeply Available Women I try to warn of the dangers inherent in this pursuit.About Thai Ladies is an attempt to mitigate the Dangers. I think at the outset it is important to be realistic about what you are likely to find in Thailand. Of course you will find dozens of Women who want to be your Girlfriend,One however has to be brutally honest with regard as to what it is these Ladies are actually looking for!!
At the centre of all Thai’s lives is the Family.Finding a rich Falang is the only way any of these Women are going to procure the Cash needed to help the Family.As it is inevitably Thai Daughters who will provide for everyone finding a Falang is the tried tested and indeed ONLY way to go.When One understands and accepts this reality About Thai Ladies One is in a better place to protect Oneself!! It is important for you to understand About Thai Ladies incredible Loyalty to their Family.
As I have written previously the situation is perfectly straightforward.Western Men want a Sexy Thai Lady and the Sexy Thai Lady wants the Man’s money!! Where it all goes Cock Eyed is the introduction of the Man’s Ego and the Ladies Family into the equation!! I honestly believe that keeping things as close to a Business transaction as possible is the only way to go!! No matter how good your relationship with a Thai Woman appears to be never for one second believe that She is capable of siding with you against Her Family!!
The idiots who get themselves Ripped Off will have in the main fallen for an impossibly young impossibly Beautiful Thai Tart!! Of course these Chumps do not see her as a Tart they see her as a Goddess they are in fact thinking with their Loins not their Brains!! Do not misunderstand me here please I am not saying that it is just Beautiful Young Thai Women who will stiff you, They ALL WILL. The foregoing is obviously a slight exaggeration,but only slight!! Once you have begun to understand that getting hold of YOUR Money is the motivator you are on the way to understanding all About Thai Ladies!
I am mightily impressed by my Aussie Friends observation about One’s EGO being the most dangerous thing One can bring to Thailand!! I lived in the UK for 63 Years without ever being accused of being handsome,and yet ever since I arrived in Thailand my Handsomeness is attested to on a regular basis!! Most of you do not believe that a Thai Woman whispering Honeyed words in your ear will open up your Wallet,well I am here to tell you that in many instances that is exactly what it will do!!
Obviously dependent on the Woman’s skills as a Hustler and on her reading of you as a prospective Mark the extraction process will vary in every case!! I always Smile when I remember an American Guy telling me about his first phone call to a particular Thai Lady,once the pleasantries were dealt with the Ladies first question was “Will you buy a Honda Car for my Family?!!” Amateurs like the Lady just mentioned are of course easy to deal with,they however are in the minority,you are likely to be faced with much more formidable opposition!!
As I have mentioned previously the majority of the Women pursuing Falang are Poor Working Class with limited education.Finding a Falang who throws his Money around must be for these Women the Ultimate prize and something they will not easily relinquish.My own feeling is because so many of the Thai Falang relationships they hear about fail that what is remembered is how much the Woman got i.e. did She get a House.Allowing for the Thai tendency to greed anyway it is hardly surprising that what the majority of these Women are shooting for is the Most they can get in the shortest possible time!!
I am aware that I tend to portray things in Black and White tending to ignore the emotional side of relationships. Obviously the reason for so many Men getting into trouble here is precisely because they have been driven by their Heart not their Head! The problem with this is that while you have become emotionally involved your Thai Lady is free from all such encumbrances,She is looking for Cash not Love!!
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